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DÜmR Created Jan 28, 2025 00:59
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Just deep cleaned the f**k outta my place. Which makes me wonder, who's tidy, and who will admit to being a slob?

I'll step out of that comfort zone first and tell you when I was young, I was not tidy. My bestie, who's cleaned houses professionally most of her young life told me, "You have the second dirtiest room I've ever cleaned." We weren't that old though.

Nowadays I run a tight ship, without being a freak about it.

What say yee?

 

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Deleted User

Jan 28, 2025 01:28

I'm a clean freak minimalist. Don't like having a ton of things but I enjoy having clean headquarters.

Slothpenguin

Jan 28, 2025 01:38

Hoarder. Not to the point of bottles of piss in the corner but I have too much stuff.

Daddy Gru

Jan 28, 2025 03:01

Definite clean / neat freak, both at home and at work. My wife and every other woman I’ve ever lived with put the lie to the gender stereotype of women being the cleaner ones. My wife is so bad at cleaning, I prefer she not even try. Leave it to me and it will get done right the first time.

DÜmR

Jan 28, 2025 04:13

Lolol, @gru. I got broke in by the first gal I lived with. I remember her critiquing my skills. In her defense there was some stuff she taught me. In my defense it was my first place, but not hers. I've been on top of things for a long time now. Also, I've always kept common areas clean. It's only fair to everyone else.

Thrones

Jan 28, 2025 06:28

I do keep stuff but its tidied away in the loft/cupboards etc

I tend to tidy as I go. Like when i'm cooking and things are under control I tend to then go wash dishes or do other tidying while waiting. My girlfried does not. She leaves everything everywhere. Like cutting strawberries, every morning she leaves the house and the knife and top of the strawberries are left on the counter or a knife for buttering her toast.

It doesnt annoy me though.......


We tend to be different where in generally tidy and clean up after myself however she hits a point and does a massive clean up

emperorroberto

Jan 28, 2025 21:23

I don't keep up w my place a lot.Every once in a shile I cleen and it doesn't take much but I have too much sh_t.

DÜmR

Jan 28, 2025 21:27

If I weren't a musican, I'd own next to nothing and be happy about it. But, I am a musican so I've almost maxed out a medium 1 bedroom apartment. I have high ceilings, so I have to start working upwards, because I have a lot of gear to set up still.

I try to tidy as I go so the big weekly cleaning goes quick. The winter blues got me recently, but my friend said she still thought I just cleaned, so I guess I'm pretty neat.

💖 Neon™ Waifu 💖

Jan 29, 2025 01:30

Walt and I are slobs, but we're old and tired

DÜmR

Jan 29, 2025 02:30

I think a little more slack is in order when peoples lives are super busy.

Daddy Gru

Jan 29, 2025 03:29

Absolutely fücking not. If I can do it with all the shït I’m doing in life, so can you. Have some pride in your living space. Make your bed. I’m Jordan Peterson.

💖 Neon™ Waifu 💖

Jan 29, 2025 03:44

I am getting a re-do on my childhood so no, I am not going to make my bed.

emperorroberto

Jan 29, 2025 05:40

Robotussin use to help me clean up.

Weary whisper

Jan 29, 2025 14:43

I'm pretty clean & tidy. I don't like clutter in my place. Lol 😄

Years ago I lived with a housemate, she was a nurse that sterilised things in hospitals for operations. I found her anal retentive about cleaning. 🤭 but I think she was just a chronic complainer in retrospect. My last ex I lived with didn't give a s**t about cleaning or clutter whatsoever, one of many reasons we broke up, just builds resentment long term, if someone isn't pulling there weight, especially when your both holding down jobs & paying the bills. Which I've done in every relationship, we definitely weren't compatible domestically. So ive lived with a slob/grotty person & a anal retentive clean freak. I think I'm a healthy clean & tidy in my mind. Lol

Anthony55

Jan 29, 2025 14:46

I say clearings for yourself is easy maximum of 2 persons but for an entire family it seems really hard

Jaynuary

Jan 29, 2025 14:48

Cleaning? Whats next? Dancing? s*x with men?

No thank you, good sir!

Weary whisper

Jan 29, 2025 14:49

Like when I say slob. I said let's live like you want for months I won't do anything.

So I'm talking he put dishes in the bath tub, there was so much. The mice & rats came, the dogs were chasing them at night. I'm talking grubby, slob, disgusting. Glad i left just thinking about now, nice guy, but I can't live like that. Not even close. Lol

DÜmR

Jan 29, 2025 20:41

Holy f**k, dishes in the tub s pretty bad. 🎵and I raaaaann, I rannnn so far awaaaaayyy🎵

DÜmR

Jan 29, 2025 20:47

I clean for almsot solely for my mental health. As someone with s**te mental health I gotta do whatever I can to combat it.
I dance because dancing is fun and I have s*x with men, because that's how daddy gets paid!

Mjauw

Jan 29, 2025 23:28

Dümr:
Yes!! Fkn preach hahaha
Cleaning dancing and f**king are all my favourite things and I do then all with passion and pride and until I'm sweaty and drained!

Weary whisper

Jan 30, 2025 01:27

@ dumr yep. I've never experienced anyone that dirty. I think he took some kind of punk pride on living gross, not to say all punks are like that, but more then a few punks I knew in the Melbourne punk scene, lived really fifthly lifestyles. I'm like just because you don't agree with that status quo, doesn't mean hygiene & healthy environment isn't a concern, there's a scientific reason behind being clean. 🤷🏻‍♀️

I third that, both @mjauw & @ dumr. I like cleaning to get my nervous & anxious energy out. So I get it. Cleaning & dancing, listening to music at the same time is primo! 😋🙂👌

Weary whisper

Jan 30, 2025 02:10

@dumr lol 😆 no running, but when I left I was gone for good, gave him so many chances, had so many friendly discussions about it, he was very stubborn about it. Acting like I was trying to tell him what to do, when finally I was like, this is incompatibility. I can't live like this. I don't think most people could. I think most people would think, this guy is just taking the piss! I wanted a relationship where we were a team. I wasn't his parent or maid. Like I said I worked too, & paid half the bills. I've always been like that.

DÜmR

Jan 30, 2025 06:25

Damn... a whole ocean between us mjauw. 😂😂😂.

DÜmR

Jan 30, 2025 06:28

@whisper. I had a friend who was pretty much that dirty and I have no idea how his gf dealt with it. They eventually got their own apartment, which wasn't trashed. The house they previously lived in was trashed because it was his dad's, and it was a party house. Don't lift the cup.... you never lift the cup. (That's a story and a half)

If I remember correctly dad expected his gf to clean if she wanted it differently. Her bf, my friend took care of himself about the same way. I wouldn't be surprised if they're not together anymore.

DÜmR

Jan 30, 2025 06:33

I got myself spruce up now too, my Mohawk is f**king huge now. Self care is neat.

 

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