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Yes or no?

Yes or no?

TheRaven29 Created Apr 23, 2025 05:30
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Do guys find it less attractive to date a woman who is Tom boy and has short hair? I'm 30 and I'm like this now I don't wear makeup so I look transgender, but I'm not I'm straight. Now this doesn't mean I wear T-shirts and jeans to a date no i just feel more comfortable wearing what I wear

 

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Apr 23, 2025 06:05

Tbh this might be my preference of style in a partner. You have to remember everyone has different tastes in terms of physical attraction.

It's funny though because my last ex had this kinda look when we first met but she slowly changed into a more feminine woman as time passed. The more I thought about it, the more I realize people with this general aesthetic tends to get my attention. Unpopular opinion, but I believe a beautiful female looks just as good with short hair as she would with long hair.

Anyways, the moral of the story is you should never count yourself out. Especially in the alternative scene; everyone has specific things that they like and dislike.

TheRaven29

Apr 23, 2025 06:39

You're right. I don't know I guess being with the wrong people just where I am (Texas) some guys can be very judgmental and assume I'm not a girl or assume I'm lesbian or transgender

emperorroberto

Apr 23, 2025 07:47

I think a little makeup is better and some inbetween lesbians can look good(one's not too manly or girly looking)

The Jaypril Fool

Apr 23, 2025 10:03

The game is Brennan cant win!

Jo_Genderneutral

Apr 23, 2025 11:17

You should look attractive because of who you are Personally speaking i don't think the described less attractive generally speaking

Slothpenguin

Apr 23, 2025 11:54

You can't club a gender together. Would you say all the women you know have the same type?
I've dated men who like jeans and a tee, I know men who aren't into lingerie but love the girl in just one of their shirts!
Id like to ask this of the men on here, I've found when im confident and happy I attract way more men, om still.the same me, same way of dressing, but is this something that men are attracted to?
I know im attracted to more upbeat men, ones who have problems but with support fight through them.

Slothpenguin

Apr 23, 2025 14:55

Ps, you don't look transgender, you feel transgender. Are you trying to be a boy? No. O don't see why people can't day dres more masculine!

Thrones

Apr 23, 2025 16:17

I prefer long hair

Eoten

Apr 23, 2025 17:46

I don't mind tom boy types with short hair at all.

Mr Nightnews

Apr 23, 2025 17:52

I'm completely ok with this on my pirate ship lol!

Fantasy pirate ship c/o Yellowbeard cult movie..

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Apr 24, 2025 03:30

I would say that most men prefer long hair, but some like short hair. I would also say, if you feel like you're not appealing to your target audience and it's of concern then change. Grow your hair longer, or try makeup. Of course you don't have to, but then you also need to own the consequences of it which is that your dating pool may be smaller because of it.

Flyxglitter

Apr 24, 2025 13:43

Another reason I can't get woke, they even found a way to steal and destroy the meaning of tom boy.

The Jaypril Fool

Apr 24, 2025 13:44

Wait, tomboy means something different now?

TheRaven29

Apr 24, 2025 17:36

What does it mean now? I think of it as a girl who wears t-shirt and jeans

The Jaypril Fool

Apr 24, 2025 17:39

Its how Rolf refers to boys called Tom.

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Apr 24, 2025 18:49

Ok, you get cool points for the Ed Edd n Eddy reference...

Eoten

Apr 24, 2025 20:45

Tom boy is a girl who is into things that guys tend to be more interested in. Now people like to pretend it's because they were really guys all along.

Mr Nightnews

Apr 24, 2025 22:10

I'm not sure about some of these comments.. so here is the definitive youtube instructional on #tomboys!

Doris Day - A Woman's Touch (Calamity Jane) (1953)

I still would, lol!

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TheRaven29

Apr 25, 2025 01:03

I see I thought it was just someone who likes wearing T-shirts and jeans and is a girl doing it but I get it now lol nice reference

 

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