I just moved back to Binghamton. NY and could sure use some female friends so I'm counting on you gentle reader to keep me socially adjusted and maybe sane.
I'm kind of an odd duck as I'm riddled with contradiction. I'm an introvert who when motivated possesses the interpersonal skills and charisma of an extrovert. I'm a sensitive dreamer who has a very dark sense of humor. I'm lonely but not many people seem interesting.
I'm try to be honest because I believe that's the only way to really connect with someone. If you project lies and half-truths then how can people really know you?
I need to include this caveat: everything I've written here is honest and true to the best of my knowledge. I felt compelled to include this because I believe that many people exaggerate (and sometimes outright lie!) to impress people and/or get into their pants but I'm unwilling to do that so my profile can seem lame or unimpressive when compared to all these well built internet millionaire s*x studs rampant in the online dating scene.
What my mind consumes is important to me and unlike most people I read, watch and listen to the for more than just mere entertainment. I believe that if I'm going to slack off and not be creative myself then I feel that entertainment should be off high quality. For music it should be something I can't figure out too easily, have something I can newly discover on repeated listens and not be cliched and too predictable. With fiction I like it to teach me something or give me insight into relationships or the world. IMO one of the most important aspect of any work of art is that it have no wasted brushstrokes meaning that every aspect contributes to the whole in the best way possible with my favorite and best loved works doing so creativity, uniquely and with wit whilst avoiding cliche.
What I'm seeking from a female is a muse aka someone who gets my creativity going and she'll hopefully be the last one I need because we'll last. The relationships and the women I've been involved with them in have been reliably escalating in quality as time has passed. In part this is because relationships, like poker, teach me a lot about myself. The most recent relationship I was in, lo 6 or so years ago, helped me conquer issues with my sexuality and dealing with jealousy.
Hopefully this doesn't come off as arrogance as it's not intended to. In fact, being humble is a major part of my personal philosophy (so is being honest with myself and others). I believe that being humble enough to admit you don't know something is the first step to learning. The "worst case scenario" if I do already know something and I relearn it is that studying it again helps me to internalize it so it might eventually become second nature.
I'm into tattooed females with cool hair. I'm mostly into electronic music (of the serious variety ie Electro-Acoustic & musique concrete), krautrock, IDM, techno, house, drum & bass, post-hardcore, a tiny bit of ska, punk, hardcore, experimental, avant garde, dub, electronica and even better some combinations there of. Please feel free to call or text me 607-205-8261.
I know this near essay about me is bound to turn off most ladies but I'm only looking for one and I hope she reads this because I'm finally ready to meet her.
