I could really care less if you talk to me or not. My life is pretty awesome right now and, though I don't particularly need anyone, spontaneity is always more fun in pairs.
I'm an independent contractor in the catering industry. Even though I'm primarily piscatarian, as an active member of the food industry, I tend to keep my pallet open to tasting anything I cook. I also create outside of the kitchen - chainmail, wire weave, cosplay, accessories, *****, etc. and I'm VERY good at it.
I have children. My children come first in all things. If you don't want/like kids, we can be friends but nothing more.
I don't play games (outside of geekdom) and I've no patience anymore for drama, so leave it at the door.
I study the occult and histories of various cultures, subcultures, and eras. Yes, I DO practice (I am NOT Wiccan. I am Norse Druid, as are my ancestors). No, I won't make you a love potion or curse your ex, so please! stop asking (that's what the tourist shops are for). I respect the PEOPLE of the misguided faiths in the Christian religion, but will not tolerate closed minds attempting to control or convert. Go back and read the actual histories, then we may have a discussion.
I am a strong supporter of the lgbtrpo community and racial/religious equality. If you exhibit any signs of hatred towards these groups or individuals, I will not associate with you. Period.
That being said, I will try my best to respond to any message I receive.
On an aside, if you've managed to read this far, I am recovering from a work injury which resulted in two years of medical and PT, three major surgeries, and a full knee replacement. I don't have much of an income at the moment and lost everything, including the family home, because of the past two years of hell. I'm not here to provide for boys. I already did that with my own three without any help. I'm only looking for Gothic lifestyle men that have their act together and want a family.