I'm fully vaccinated with both boosters. I'm hoping to move to Santa Clarita soon.
Non-sexually I'm a geeky rocker, I like video games but I'd usually rather go out than play them. I'm also into sci-fi/fantasy and technology. The music I listen to is mostly rock and rock sub-genres. I enjoy hiking, camping, the beach, museums, the observatory, playing tennis, or just hanging out watching a movie or playing card or board games. Creatively I enjoy writing, I write poems, stories, and writing a book. My sense of humor is dark and sometimes raunchy.
sexually I'm Dominant and a Daddy Dom and I also like puppy, kitty, and wolf play. I've never been a 24/7 master and not sure if I"d want to be, at least not around family and friends...too many questions. When we're on our own that's another subject. I love and expect good communication and conversations, I may ask your opinion on things and expect you to give it honestly. Any tie I give you permission to talk don't be shy, say what's on your mind. If you have questions, you may ask as long as you're respectful. If you only want to be Dominated in bed, that's fine too.
I know my ***** list is long, I've been on here for many years and accumulated a lot, just skim them. I'm not into scat, cutting (not into blood), or homosexual s*x (I'm straight). If you're not into a ***** of mine, just tell me, I wouldn't make you do anything you don't want to do, it's called pushing which means pushing you to do the things you're interested in, not the things that revolt you. If you're bi and want a girlfriend and we're being monogamous I'm fine with it. Just because I don't want to have s*x with another man doesn't mean I should stop you from being with women.
What am I looking for? That's the question and it's hard to say, but when I find out I'll let you know. I'm open to monogamous, ENM, poly, and swinging...you never know who you're going to end up liking so I keep an open mind. I gravitate toward intelligent and creative women and I don't care if you have 3 doctorates, I don't mind a woman smarter than me. I like to say I have an angel on one shoulder and a devil on the other, usually the devil wins. Also, be funny, a good person, honest, ***** yet a little romantic! No addictive hard-core drugs (coke, crack, meth, heroine...etc), pot, and other non-addictive drugs are ok once in a while. Don't be overly jealous, that's my major pet peeve and won't be tolerated. We'll go out with my friends and yours maybe all together, but I may want to just hang out with my friends alone sometimes and you should hang out with yours as well.
I'm very nurturing and affectionate as well as strict. I love cuddling, making sure my sub/little feels safe. I'm protective, and I try not be too overprotective, if you feel I am you can respectfully tell me and we can talk about it. Communication is very important to me, I'm pretty empathetic, if I feel somethings wrong, I'll ask, and the answer you give I'll take as the truth (but if I find out you lie, you get punished). If I feel someone is trying to take advantage or hurt you, I'll tell you straight out. If you disagree and insist I'm wrong that's fine, but when I'm right I will say I told you so.
I won't Dominate you while we're getting to know each other (I may show a few tendencies though). If you want to take things slow, just let me know, I'm not here to rush anyone, we both have to feel comfortable with each other, sometimes that will be right away, and sometimes it'll take a while.
If you have any questions just ask.
