just being honest.Thank you for understanding.Feel free to message ladies, if nothing else, maybe we could end up being friends! Nothing wrong with a few friends with similar interests, this doesn't always have to be about dating. Don't be scared, during these troubling times, I am only looking to get to know someone virtually for now, and we will see what's next!
Happy New Year! by the way! May it bring you prosperity and hope in these troubled times.
27 yr old petite arts/crafts and nature-loving full-blown nerdy anime artist/lover dork Bi mom of two, in a life-long relationship with my 41 yr old Straight/gender-nonconforming husband of ten+ years (never a night apart) who is an exceptional artist from photography, drawing/painting to sculpture and jewelry creation.
Oh, and if you support Trump, then we will have issues, otherwise, political and social debates are a healthy part of understanding the world we live in. I have no problem staying up til 4am discussing how we can do our part to curb racism, LGBTQIA+ discrimination, wealth inequality, homelessness and environmental issues plaguing this planet. So, if you enjoy stimulating conversation, that's a plus in our book.
I am looking for a woman who is interested in friendship, then maybe more, who is open-minded and can comprehend a closed polyfidelity/poly-triad long-term relationship (I know, sounds crazy - looking for a unicorn, so it has been said) but I have been wanting an equal female partner for a long time now, one based on consent and total disclosure. I don't want to fight over who holds who's hand at Walmart. Pettiness has no place in my world.
Sadly, people are so negative when it comes to this subject, like, it's always a couple and there is no such thing as a Bi girl who wants a fulfilling long-term relationship with both a male and a female equal partner.
That's crap.
I am a prime example, I have just found my male counterpart already. You might not take this seriously, but I do.
Essentially, I want a girlfriend with similar interests, and I will let her in my little world, as I explore hers, then we will see where it goes, with the endgame being a lifelong journey.
Otherwise, it's her life, isn't it? Nobody is forcing anyone to do anything. So please, I don't want to hear any of that couple looking for a 3some kind of crap, s*x has but a small part to play in this ménage à trois. NO flings or hookup garbage, as that famous meme says "I ain't got no time for that!"
First and foremost is friendship bound in mutual respect, you have your likes, I have mine, and we have many together as well.
It has to be built on a foundation of security for all those involved, again feel free to message if this sounds strange yet intriguing.
----------See a detailed definition of what we consider a polyfidelity relationship here on our Tumblr --------------
Ashandant3 - our pinned post - Not-just-another-unicorn-hunter
We don't discriminate, as everyone has beliefs that are theirs alone. But, if you don't love animals, music (everything but gangsta/mumble rap & new country) and arts/crafts, plus a little kink thrown in the mix, this friendship is not for you. We are both kind of tech/craft savvy modern-day hippies. Will try to post more photos soon. 420 friendly, but we do not drink, thought I would mention that.
As far as our current life, we are taking a break from years of hard labor and getting our online Etsy business going well again, and, eventually, opening a brick-and-mortar craft/entertainment/coffee shop. Sort of a gallery with pastries and good fresh ground coffee, little stage in the corner for whomever wishes to hone their verbal/musical talents. Also, the reason I am here -to possibly meet some new friends with the chance at something more! Eventually, we will get out of this micro-town, get some land with a small self-sustaining farm, surrounded by deep woods, and the privacy to run around naked in the yard if we feel like it.
Sooo...f you could spend half the day in a huge tree, or could roam Skyrim or Hyrule for funzies. Or maybe you could find yourself discussing plot failures and accomplishments in anime, while crafting something curled up on the couch binging youtube documentaries or music, and, of course, people watching/analyzing is always interesting. Finally, thrift stores and yard sales are the s**t, period.
Well...........how come I haven't got a message yet?
A heads up - Family is everything, we are one unit, you respect that, we will respect you. We are looking for an equal partner to a socially-awkward creative family. If you have children, that's fine too, we aren't concerned that you are a Mom first, I understand that for sure. We had one turn 9 two days ago, and one turning 8 in 12 days.
I value Interests and friendship over looks or financial status. Love should be a bond of the inner spirit, undefined by social stigma.
The last show I binged was probably Nana and Monster (animes) Lord of the Rings series and when I'm working around the house Scrubs or other ridiculous fodder as background noise. As far as likes, anything Tarantino, old 80's John Hughes movies, and so much more, we can talk about it.
Best day of my life so far? -Meeting the man of my life, he is the most kind, open-minded man I could ever dream of, seriously.
Musical tastes are anything from Breaking Benjamin, Incubus,Taking Back Sunday to Tori Amos,The Cure to Unleash the Archers, Florence, Alice in Chains among many others...
I feel, though, this is the saddest song ever written...
Across Five Aprils - A Year From Now - check it out, sad, but beautiful.
What I'm actually looking for is a new friend or two that I can get to know virtually, and maybe it can turn into something more eventually. In the future. Someone who wants to be part of a whole, who wants to be loved as an equal - a total polyfidelity relationship. Nothing else. If you have been thinking is just an illusion, it's not, there are really a few of us out there that believe in it. I am by nature, an empath, but I am not past executing a flying scissor hold when needed.
--- If you don't understand what a closed poly-triad relationship is, it is a 3-person (regardless of orientation) committed relationship, although, I don't agree with the process in which most new poly couples jump into this idea, they always start with "looking for a third, we'll see where it goes, blah, blah..." I do agree with the values on how this can be done right, with love, honesty and security in knowing we belong to each other, mind, body and spirit.
Yes, this might not ever happen, but I can at least say I gave it a shot.
My favorite outdoor activity is probably roaming around in the woods, foraging, for both fresh food/ingredients and craft supplies. Reveling at all the small things, educating ourselves and our children about a world and it's ecosystems that few seldom respect....oh, and drawing.
We are a family of bookworms. as far as fiction I really enjoy Lemony Snicket's A Series of Unfortunate Events, Jean Auel's Earth Children series, a lot of Manga, and the Xanth novels by Piers Anthony.
Silent Spring by Rachel Carson and anything to do with wildlife, botany, ecology, geology, etc.. Our 8 year old son can spend half the day reading a Dictionary.
- We are super-nerds.
I love anime, and have a pretty extensive collection..
Everything from Rurouni Kenshin to Spice and Wolf, Monster, Another , Elfen Lied, and many more. Cosplay would be a way of life if I could afford it.
The song I listen to when I want to remember a certain moment in time that brings me joy...
Swing Life Away -Rise Against, it's our song.
I draw manga, write journals, and we are jewelry/craft making nuts! We are constantly creating projects also to keep the artistic side of homeschooling our kids fresh.
My ideal family would have to be - Him, her, myself, and all our children, camping, cooking, crafting, dancing and singing around the house, creating physical and emotional memories, running a business together, living a good life without a lot of stress and baggage.
So, that is a start, I am sure there will be more to come as I think of things, if nothing else, being introverts, our friend circle is quite small, so if you are looking for someone to talk to, and you see we might be on the same page, there's nothing wrong with some good conversation, so feel free to start one.
