on the boards that has my attention. Wink to them
.But that said, alwayslooking for people to talk to and exchange ideas with. But
in spite of long odds and longer distance, seeing where
this interaction goes. Read on if you wish
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NNN0y-azr7U
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0JcbeM-DMUc
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_LGZzVo0A8U
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cRBFYZre-Nw
Older first gen "goth" although my tastes are varied both
Music and style wise. Looking for someone who gets that a relationship
is about being friends, allies, lovers, and not about
paranoia, mistrust, drama etc. Someone who can know
the difference between trust and complacency.
I'm tall 6'5". Thin despite being around 190. Longer
hair.
Tired of drama. It's fine as a category of movies, but life
Is too damned short to be in a relationship that's nothing
but stress.
Tall? Short? In between? No problem.
I don't let any one thing define me. My music
tastes run from goth to mod, 60's garage, rockabilly
classical, the odd ear worm horrid pop song etc. It
depends on the mood.
I am NOT the night, I am not a vampire all day etc. If any
one single thing defines you, tattoos, piercings, collecting
hallmark figurines, then I don't think it will work.
Atheist. Studied most religions and enjoy that. But I am not religious.
I enjoy the universe, and all things science. But I appreciate the occult etc.
Liberal in political mindset.
Also if you like to go out, that's great, so do I, but I want someone
who understands the value of a night in. That said, I enjoy Dining out,
the occasional bar hop ( I do enjoy a drink now and then, but
if falling down in your own stomachs previous contents is your idea
of a good time, yeah...no). Mostly enjoy beer, trappist ales and
good hefe weisse, but it's an accent to a good meal with good company, not
the end all and be all of life. Or an escape. Or crutch.
A good road trip up through the redwoods here, or off to some small spot
with a good lunch or dinner interspersed with the lure of the road is something
I enjoy greatly. Concerts sure
A quiet night at home with a good dinner, to just collapsing on the couch and holding each other 'till we fall asleep. If you're the right one,
it doesn't matter where we go or what we do, so long as you are there,
and you are happy. (even if you're away, if that makes sense )
I enjoy photography, working mostly in film, 35mm and 120mm. And not THOSE kinds of photos.
Well if you ask maybe. But I like to carry my camera whever I go, or fill my phones
memory with shots when I regret not having my camera.
Used to Dj. Not the wikki wikki kind, but Dj'd for 3 years in
NYC on Saturdays so someone
must have thought I was good.
As to the bedroom, conventional to looking like a
Kink.com photo shoot. Both ends of the spectrum.
Variety being the spice of life. But I'm not going to
brand you or blood play, etc. Yeah, I know I can
hear the multitudes running going
"ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww"
but hey may as well get it out of the way. Hopefully a giggle was had.
If you understand that I will sacrifice to keep a roof
over your head, and make it so going out is possible etc,
But understand I'm not a bottomless wallet and can help
support us as well, then, that's a good thing. It's that ally thing
again. Not going to insist in someone covering things if they can't
because they lost a job. Or can't find one. People
in love and on the adventure of life together just don't do that to one
and other. Not in my book anyways.
Not a neat freak, but if the idea of clothes everywhere
and a sink full of dishes is ok... Well, I don't think it will work.
Not asking you to be my maid. Not at all. Just can't do the
"what the hell is living in the kitchen sink? And why are their
panties in the cereal cupboard" thing....
Ethnicity, doesn't matter to me. Although I do love
Anglo accents... But that's not a deal breaker by any means.
Half way across the world? Send a message anyways. You never know.
It might just be one of those things that's meant to be.
Not looking to cyber. Looking for an ally. (see above )
If you're looking for a boy in a lace dress, I'm not him.
If you're looking for the guy who goes out and picks fights
to prove to you how tough he is, nope, not going to happen.
Able to handle one, but no need to start one to show off.
If you are looking for a mature man with a stable job, and good
sense of self, then maybe we have a starting point. I don't do the "man act".
That's for people who haven't seen the far side of 40. I know who I am and
don't need to "prove" anything. Seriously, no posturing here.
There you go. You made it this far. Sorry it is a bit clinical, but we're all here looking
for someone. I just want both of us to be sure we've covered the bases. So maybe,
since you made it this far, it might be
something. Or if not, maybe it was good comedy.
" Komm mich mal besuchen
ich hab' unendlich Zeit "
