Update: I'm Taken now, friends ok
Overview: I'm a tech-savvy, autistic, introverted individual who doesn't fit generally into any one category or another. I have a varied number of interests. I'm pretty diligent, I have a never give up attitude and always strive for improvement even if I fail. I tend to be very protective of people I care about. I think a lot and my logic tends to be pretty sound. I tend to learn a lot and like to learn. I'm pretty masculine but also tend to be open to things. For example, I don't see any interests and activities as gender exclusive, but I may not like certain ones. I'm more on the dominant side and definitely looking for a submissive type.
My most important criteria involves finding a Partner(s) who enjoys virtual worlds/video games as much as real life. One who is sweet, submissive, loyal, caring, and feminine (I have a wide range of what looks feminine to me and can see feminine traits in even many "tom boys"). I also love nature and animals, so definitely someone who does so as well. Make each other laugh and enjoy life in general.
I'm not looking for just s*x or physical intimacy, but someone who would be a perfect partner in many ways and be one of my best friends too. So I want to take time to get to know you and understand you and see if we mesh well. I guess I'm a little demi and sapio possibly, but not sure.
I have my fair share of issues: I'm Autistic, broken/hurt, etc. You probably don't want to be with me, but I'll let you decide. Long-term plan of divorcing LTR wife, she already met someone; NEVER will get back with her, so don't worry about that. Working towards helping her get stable which will take many years.
I'm very Dominating, controlling, protective. I'm a Dom/Master type (fine with Daddy Dom too), so definitely looking for girl who wants to be a Sub and enjoys a man like this. I'm not a toxic Dom type. Consent, boundaries, and agreement are all very important, I do not force anyone to do anything. A true Dom gets submitted to, not forces submission (unless of course that scenario was consented on, like CNC) . There is a lot of misinformation and toxic ideas about Real ****. Abuse is not ****. Consent is very important. I like to take care of my partner and make her feel good basically (I enjoy this very much), that is the end goal for a true Dom, to ensure your partner really enjoys the submission and intimacy. Everyone is different and have different preferences on what exactly they like, if they like to be treated with naughty or nicer names and treatment. I love the way a woman looks at me/feels when I call her a "good girl" ;p Anyway, it just varies, would love to discuss, but probably have this conversation way later on.
I'm 5'8, with black hair and brown eyes; generally a big beard. I'm currently training, I try to train about 5 days a week. I'm working on my goal of bicep curling many reps and sets of 100 lbs dumbbell in each arm. I've been working on 40 lbs and kind of stopped for a long time, moved to 50 lbs last month and now started on 60 lbs. I try to do many pushups as well. I have a badass long demon sword as well as few other swords I love collecting, I'll likely purchase more swords in the future.
I enjoy Video Games, Anime, Fantasy, Nature, etc. I'm definitely looking for someone who enjoys or wants to enjoy being in virtual worlds with me as much as in real life. Games like Guild Wars 2, Civilization 6, Stardew Valley, etc, are great to play with partners. Going out to a forest and chilling is great, on top of the standard types of activities people generally do.
I'm a highly experienced, skillful IT and Cyber Security professional and Business owner with many certifications.
I love Nu-Metal music.
I drink a lot of coffee.
I love all sorts of foods, but we can discuss that as we get to know one another
I have probably unachievable goals of making the world a better place in different ways which require lots of money, but I reach for the sky and see where I land.
For Harry Potter fans, I'm probably a weird mix between: Newt Scamander, Jacob Kawolski, Sirius Black, Neville Longbottom, and Severus Snape (Maybe some Harry Potter too).
As far as houses, I'm probably a reverse Harry Potter where the sorting hat tells me to choose Gryffindor and that I belong there (Pottermore determined that house for me), but I get it to put me in Slytherin ;p
I love Halloween and Horror Movies (Alternative Comedy). I tend to also not be scared of anything so you can hold me and I'll keep you safe ;p cuddling and hug friendly
I love all sorts of types of genres, so I'm pretty open to anything.
I'm looking for a sweet, kind girl who appreciates what I do for her, is completely loyal, and wants a Master that will protect her and take care of her.
Someone who will enjoy spending time with me in virtual worlds as much as in real life
I'm interested in getting to know you first and seeing if we mesh (looking for partner(s) long-term). I really like tiny build, short, submissive, feminine girls who are sweet and kind. I really love many different styles and aesthetics, however with me loving black and Nu-Metal, I tend to get attracted more by Goth or Alt styles.
I'm open to Poly with Bi-sexual women only, I loathe men. I don't mind women who want to be with other women, I won't get jealous. In fact, I love this not just sexually but also it feels natural and perfect to me. I'm happy to join in, dom, and make you both feel good. Women deserve lots of love, which is why definitely having more women partners is very good for Bi-sexual women.
Preferred in a girl:
- Looking for a Best Friend on top of a Partner
- Animal Lover (I have cats)
- Enjoys Fantasy, Sci-Fi, Video Games, Anime, Tabletop Games, etc
- Introvert/Shy, loves spending time at home/in virtual worlds
- Feminine/Submissive
- Sweet/Kind/Caring
- Completely loyal and trustworthy
Nice to haves:
- Tiny build, short, cute, submissive, feminine girls (5'5 and shorter seems to be really nice, but I'm ok with taller girls; like I said these aren't requirements, just nice to haves....my wife I'm divorcing with is 5'9 ;p )
- Bi-sexual (more into Women), prefer me to Dominate them and help them
- Women who love and are thankful for getting protected and taken care, they feel so happy that they express it to their Master
- Dresses/Skirts, High Heels (or any heeled shoe or boots really/girly footwear), Nail Polish all are turn ons and make you feel more feminine to me ;p