TL;DR - Playful music loving geek with a passionate streak, seeking chemistry.
ABOUT ME:
I’m Rayne, a straightforward, open-minded, and confident guy, though my autism sometimes makes me come off strong, but I’m just passionate about things I care about. I’m also geeky, creative, and a bit goofy, with a sarcastic sense of humour. At heart, I’m quite romantic, but I also love a bit of adventure and spontaneity.
Music is a huge part of my life, I’m a total metalhead, and I love playing guitar. Whether it’s headbanging at a concert or jamming at home, music keeps me going. I also enjoy deep conversations, playful banter, and geeking out over sci-fi, fantasy, and gaming.
I walk with a cane these days (cars and I have a bit of a complicated history). It’s definitely slowed me down and some things are more challenging now. Though, I still enjoy going out, having fun, and making the most of life, (though I'm more of an indoorsy sort) but it’s given me a solid excuse to take things at my own pace. Plus, I like to think the cane gives me a touch of a Victorian gent flair, so I’ll take it.
I fluctuate between ENTP and INTP as I’m an ambivert, which means I love being social, but I also value my downtime. Pseudo-psychology personality labels aside, I just enjoy connecting with interesting people.
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WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR
I value connection in whatever form it naturally takes. Whether it’s friendship, a fun fling, something that's long-term, or something eternal, I believe in seeing where things naturally go and what feels right. I also appreciate exploring different aspects of relationships, including some more adventurous sides of intimacy, but it’s just one layer of who I am. At the core, I value real bonds, chemistry, good conversation, and having fun together.
I share things like my autism, disability, geekiness and intimacy upfront because I know they’re not for everyone, and that’s okay! I’d rather be open about who I am and connect with someone who gets me. If that sounds like you, we’ll probably get along great.
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My "Love Language"
32% Quality Time
I’m all about shared moments. Catching a gig or a cosy movie night at home.
31% Physical Touch
Big on cuddles, holding hands and... 😏
22% Acts of Service
A tea delivery when I’m deep in gaming session? Yes, please. And if you're upset, I'm prob gonna bring you snacks.
13% Words of Affirmation
Hearing “You’re doing great” when I’m in the zone is still very much appreciated.
2% Receiving Gifts
That doesn't mean I don't treasure gifts, it's just not as important to me as the rest
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LIFE GOALS:
Generate my own income doing something I love, own my home (possibly a tiny house), own a custom trike, learn to build my own guitar, get awesome tattoos, settle down. Possibly marriage and family if I find the right woman.
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WHAT I BELIEVE IN:
Common sense, critical thinking, egalitarianism, humanism, open debate, and the importance of being true to oneself.
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LIKES LIST:
A cup of tea, alternative housing, animals, anime, architecture, art, Batman, Britcoms, cartoons, cinema, cooking, cosplay, cuddling, design, diversity of thought, documentaries, festivals, gaming, gigs, guitar, history, honesty, kink, loyalty, making stuff, motorbikes/trikes, open fires, open-mindedness, philosophy, photography, rationality, romance, storms, swords, Tim Burton, ye olde pubs.
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DISLIKES LIST:
Arrogance, betrayers, cancel culture, controlling people, deindividuation, discrimination of any kind (from anyone to anyone, if you're gonna hate someone, hate them for who they are, not what they are), extremist views of any kind, Fifty Shades of Grey, football, gossips, judgemental people, Marmite, people who assume being into kink means user, preachy people (religion, vegans, anti-vegans, far right, far left, ect ect), relationship meddlers, slow computers, staged "reality" TV, the first message, ultimatums, warm beer.
