Hi my name is Adam, i'm 27 and wanting to meet a cool girl that would appreciate a guy that on the outside seems like a badboy type but who is also caring , thoughtful, affectionate and respectful. I'm looking for a girl that i can get to know that shares common interests with me and would like to chat first and then possibly hang out sometime and get to know each other even better. I'm not looking for a hookup or anything and i don't really have too many expectations but i want to get to know a good looking girl that wants to become friends and possibly more. Maybe we can just chat back and forth some or meet up and go out for a bite to eat and/or drinks so that we can talk or just hang out and go for a walk somewhere.
Mostly I am looking for a girl that is unique and has a lot of style. Piercings, tattoos and colored hair are a big plus but not a deal breaker. I would prefer a girl that is my height (5'6) or shorter because its just a lot more suiting. I'm not a tall guy and even though i wouldn't mind a girl that is taller than me , i prefer shorter girls. Besides, most women like or prefer tall guys so i like girls that don't mind being with someone closer to their own height. It's cute i think... I'm into all types of music and i hate being put into stereotypical classifications but if i had to use them for the sake of trying to explain myself, then i guess you could say I look like a Metalhead/Rocker guy but i also love Drum & Bass. I have a very jeans/d**kies pants and band t-shirt type of style mostly. Skate shoes or some Doc Martin boots with a hoodie and i'm happy.
I'm not picky as far as how girls dress , as long as they take care of themselves and have a unique style or is similar to mine. I like a girl that dresses up sometimes and likes to look good but i also really like when a girl can skip the majority of the makeup and just be simple. Sometimes there is nothing more cute or s*xier than a girl in jeans and a t-shirt or tank top. As far as personality goes i can be pretty open minded and i just look for basic good qualities in a girl such as thoughtfulness , sense of humor , open-mindedness and loyalty. I don't mind when a girl is shy and its rare but i too can be shy sometimes. I'm usually pretty laid back and at first i can seem a little reserved but i'm really outgoing once i get to know a person or i have a few drinks and can loosen up. I'm just not the best at starting small talk sometimes and i think it would be much easier with a girl that i actually have things in common with or are at least willing to talk about things such as music , art , our passions in life , what makes us happy, our hobbies, and yes maybe even some politics if you care about that type of thing.
I don't really care too much about age/race as long as we have things in common and you are "legal". I would prefer someone that is 21+ because i'm 27 and would prefer a women that is closer to my age because i feel they know what they want a little more and so that we could actually go to a bar if we wanted to. I'm not a big drinker though and as long as you are 18+ and not full of immature head games then i'm open to at least a friendship. I'm really only looking for friendship to start with so no matter what your age/race is , there has to be some sort of chemistry for it to turn into anything more anyways. Since i was 15 i have been in nothing but long term relationships and have never had a g.f that i was with for less than a year. With that being said i haven't really had many chances to date or just take my time and get to know a girl that i was interested in. I have been single now for 5 months and my last relationship lasted over 7 years and i'm ready to start a new chapter in my life. It would be nice to meet a girl i can be affectionate with but not rush things with and just feel things out.
Before this gets to be any longer i'm going to try to wrap this up. If you have read all of this and have made it this far then i commend you but i want to be thorough so i don't waste my time or others. If from reading this you feel like , i'm a guy that you would like to know or get to know shoot me a message no matter how short and simple or long and complex and ill be more than happy to reply back.
