Alright... let us begin, dear reader; let us discover whether you wish to speak to me.
What am I looking for? It is possible that I am simply looking for friends - people who might want to meet me for music-making, or boardgaming, or debating the silliest hypothetical scenarios into the early hours of the morning. Perhaps I am looking for all this and more besides; what do you think, dear reader, and would you like to find out?
What are you looking for? You are without doubt looking for a chap who will get ever so animated about those niche interests you thought you'd never find anyone to share with you; you may alternatively (or additionally) be looking for a fellow kinkster or advocate of polyamory to share some parts of your lifestyle with; however, you may just be looking for someone to talk about the latest book you read and which, inexplicably, nobody else wants to hear about.
You and I are not looking, either of us, for a primary partner; I live with my slave and lover Suz; nobody will unseat her from her position. The key round my neck will be to her collar and no-one else's. You and I are not, I say again not, looking only for a meaningless one-night stand; certainly if we not only become friends but also find each other attractive then a relationship closer than just acquaintanceship might follow - indeed, naturally will follow - but it takes a connection for that to happen.
Have I described myself well? Have I described you well? Do you, dear reader, want to know more?
