I am perceptive, sincere, empathetic, patient, quirky, silly, *****, adorkably awkward, enigmatic, intriguing (I hope) and probably nothing like what you'd expect at first glance... or perhaps even the second. Those who take the time to get to know me often say I am the kind of girl they feel compelled to tell all their secrets to. (I listen *really listen* without passing judgement and I can offer advice without lecturing or turning the conversation into one that's all about me.)
I laugh at inappropriate times and often about inappropriate things. I possess Confidence Without Arrogance. I am Childfree By Choice and a quasi-atheist (more of a Quantum Theologist, actually). I adore all things Vintage: (i.e. fashions, furnishings, music and othersuch pop culture of the 20's - early 60's) and I've been performing digital Burlesque for several years.
I run the gamut from Classy to Trashy- the kind of gal you can take to meet your family during the holidays or to an obligatory work function, but behind closed doors or among close friends... RAWR!!!!
I am the naughty librarian type- sort of nerdy, but yet somehow sensual. My goal is to excite you above the shoulders and below the waist. Afterall, "Smart is the new s*xy!!!!"
In particular, Neuroscience, Psychiatry, Sociology, Philosophy, Criminology/Forensics, Paleontology, Architecture, Paranormal Investigation and s*xology fascinate me. I know a little about a lot of [seemingly] random things. (Some call that "boring;" I call it "diverse.")
Why am I here? The short answer: I like to look at pretty girls and boys. (Note: I have a weakness for rockabilly girls and emo/scene boys.)
Beyond that: Obviously, I am not meeting people I can relate to at the usual hangouts, so I thought I'd give this avenue a shot. BUT (there's always a but, isn't there?!), before you get too excited about hooking up, well, you see, lately, I've been reminiscing about the days of making out for hours until our lips were swollen and numb and grinding with our clothes on until we both had a wet spot. (That was HOT!) Sure, I am a self-admitted perv, however, I might like to try holding back a bit this time, just to see what happens. (Hey, I said MIGHT. I'm not making any promises my libido can't keep!) If I didn't loathe the phrase "friends with benefits," I'd use it, but with equal emphasis on the friendship AND the s*x (and possibly more, if the chemistry and communication is there). What I desperately want is a strong "connection," whether it's physical, emotional or both, with someone who "gets" me. Yeah, I guess it would be awesome to fall in l - o - v - e again, but I don't believe that's something you can "look" for... rather, you accidentally stumble upon it and that's magical.
If you have anything in common with me, I urge you to put aside all your shyness, your fears, your worries and tell me about yourself- the real you... because I suspect there's so much more to you than most people realize.
