Well first off this is the first time I have used a dating site. I usually meet people in person but I feel I am getting to the point where It's difficult finding someone I have enough in common with. Overall looks are unimportant to me but there has to be some kind of attraction between us obviously.
That being said. I prefer smart, funny and nerdy girls. Dark and gothic even better but not mandatory. Anyways I digress this section is supposed to be about me so here goes.
Well I'll start with the big stuff. I am the father of a wonderful little devious goblin who is four and a half. I have joint custody and spend as much time as I can with him. I know that's a deal breaker for some that's why I put it on here now.
I personally do not plan on having any more kids but its perfectly if you have some. Ok onto the less serious.
I am a nerd, dork geek whatever you would like to call it. I love reading a good book or browsing the internet mainly popsci.com or sciencenews.org. I'm infatuated with history and science and try to learn something new everyday. I love playing video and board games whenever the opportunity presents its self.
I am a devote Agnostic with secular humanist tendencies. I honestly have no interest in spirituality but love learning about religions. If it makes you a better person to believe in a higher power go for it but don't waste your time trying to convert me.
I love to debate but hate to argue please know the difference. I'm into racial pride not power. Everyone no matter their race should be proud of who they are. We are all good people and I think our differences make the world more interesting. Embrace your race, culture and heritage. Love one another for who they are.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to balance what I want to do with what I have to do. Just looking for aliitle joy everyday and trying not to be mean or rude to anyone who doesn't deserve it.
I’m really good at
I'm a great debater and I love playing devil's advocate even if I agree with someone. I am a classically trained chef and love to cook. I'm awesome at any video game I play. I'm almost a professional procrastinator.
The first things people usually notice about me
Not sure I suppose as a male it would be my size im 5'10 and 240lbs (down from 270, yea Me),. But once you get closer maybe my eyes since the change shades depending on what I am wearing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Well Lets start with books any thing from Mideval Fantasy to Vampire Horror. Some favorite authors include George R.R Martin. Poppy Z Brite, Anne Rice, Peter Telep, Christopher Rowley, Harris.Neil Degras Tyson. Just to name a few.
I also enjoy alot of non fiction history and science books.
Shows: Most of the History Channel and Nat Geo line up. Cooking shows and the Fox Sunday Lineup. Stupid comedy like Tosh.o and Pranked. GAME OF THRONES and True Blood. Big Fav's. Supernatural is currently on my to watch list.
Movies. Ip Man, The Hunger, Star Wars Saga, The Avengers, Sucker Punch, Friday the 13th series. Braveheart. The Crow, Rosemary's Baby, Zombieland, Queen of the Damned. The Other Boleyn Girl. Thirst, Space Balls, Shaun of The Dead. Wedding Crashers, The Omen, Boondock Saints. Secretary. Shawshank Redemption, Natural Born Killers. Serenity, Black Swan. Ginger Snaps. District 9 and almost any fantasy or horror movie. But if you catch me in the right mood I will watch anything even crappy movies.
The six things I could never do without
Well besides the obvious such as my son, food and water and such.
1. My Glasses
2. My Library card
3. My computer
4. Cold Coca-cola classic
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My place in the cosmos. History, science and philosophy. I like to have deep internal conversations about things I wish I could change but can't. About the past regrets I have and the emerging optimism I am trying to hold onto.
On a typical Friday night I am
Well that depends. If I am not catching up on my favorite shows or watching a movie. More then likely I am getting dressed up to go out to eat and maybe a show or concert.
