I am
30
Never married
No kids (yet) that's part of the point of this right?
Looking for a serious relationship. I won't commit to dating/getting serious (as in I won't get down with you) until I know you're not going anywhere and you actually care about me. That's just how I roll.
I don't
Do drugs (and when I say no drugs I mean I don't do drugs nor will I date anyone who does them)
Cheat in relationships
Put up with cheaters
accept abusive forms of relationships and behavior
date men who treat the women in their life poorly/just plain bad (step one if your mom is not one of your best friends we won't get along. Step 2 However if she tells you what to do with your life, then we really won't get along). Balance is key.
I have been treated like absolute nothing by several males in my life from an early age except for my baby brother and some close friends. If you are in a hurry to f**k or are mean to women in general gtfa. I am not interested.
I enjoy
Cosmetology I am starting beauty school soon (so if you find that beneath you or pathetic then don't let the door hit you in the vagina on the way out)
Harry Potter
Art-Museums, films (I frequent the ATL art house theaters), and such.
d**k flicks (as in raunchy male suited comedies especially Kevin Smith and Apatow's work)
Fantasy-Books/film (The labyrinth is my favorite movie of all time, the dark crystal and legend come in 2nd and 3rd)
Drinks with friends/socially
making friends/parties
board games/cards
Family/friends are super important to me I don't want to be attached at the hip and you freak out when I have to do something with/for them. We would have to be there for them (both our friends/family) and then each other. I mean in emergencies and times of need. Not like wake up at 2 am because they ran out of milk or something stupid. Just being nice is of huge importance.
Concerts/shows/live music
Meeting bands/getting autographs/camping for shows
LOTR and The hobbit (all things Tolkien if you wanna get real for a minute)
Cooking (as healthy as I can without it tasting nast)
Baking (not a pro but I love cookies!)
Walks in the park
Milkshakes with two straws ;D
Coffee in most any form lol
Collecting weird things like pennies so that I can have a floor made out of pennies one day in my kitchen (only the shiniest pennies need apply)
Star wars
My pets are my babies. Have a Pomeranian and kitten. They are the bosses.
Drawing
Indie comics
Music, music, music. Can't get enough. Lately it's shoegaze, darkwave, and love metal. Also Mew, Crystal castles, Bright eyes (any Conor projects), MCR, Davey Havok projects, Him, but I love something from every genre. Once I learn of a genre I haven't before I research it and zone in on my favorites which (excuse me while I brag) 9 times out of 10 are the best artists in that genre.
In conclusion I am ardently searching for someone I can make a connection with that values trust and commitment, but is still fun and likes to try new things. I am really affectionate/sexual after the relationship has been defined. So if you are not really that sexual we won't work. I am open to trying new things in the bedroom. Not too crazy, but I expect open/honest communication about s*x and whatever issues/concerns come up. I want you to feel like you can always approach me. I won't blow up or judge your thoughts and I ask you to do the same. I may not agree, but I will always hear you out within legitimate reason.Don't wanna slap the girl next door sticker on me, but if there were a nerdy/closet s*xpot one I'd be it. I'd love to have someone to enjoy my hobbies with because I have never dated anyone who has. Someone to go to dragon con, the midnight premiere of the hobbit, a show/concert, or play video games all evening with. The possibilities are endless and I am not a picky bitch I will respond to men I sense are genuine. I just don't want any more time wasted with someone that is only gonna be around for a couple of years. If this is what you are looking for msg me and we'll talk details.
