Looking for something real and long term. Someone that understands and appreciates dedication and understands the necessity of reciprocation when it comes to affection, attention and most importantly communication. I give off MAJOR Gomez Addams vibes when i like someone so youll never question if im into you or not. Im also a VERY upfront, straight forward, and honest person and thoroughly appreciate getting that in return. The only games I play are on my PC and i know my worth so if you start playing toxic games with me I will absolutely walk away. Im looking for something healthy that will grow and thrive but soo many people arent willing to put in the work for that so if youre someone who knows what it takes or are willing to learn because its what youre looking for too then I look forward to talking to you.
Major deal breakers are as follows.
-cigarettes are a no go vapes are fine though
-I dont have or want kids and had a vasectomy over done at 24 to ensure im shooting blanks. You have one might not be a deal breaker depending on age.
- drugs are a no go. I dont count weed, mushrooms, or similar plants because they just grow that way. anything that has to be chemically manufactured counts
-communication is key. its ok to be shy or nervous but if you cant talk about a problem as soon as it comes up so that we can work it out and put it behind us then you arent looking for what im looking for. also notice i said *talk* not fight or argue. we're adults and I expect you to act like one in serious times.
Other than that im a very flexible person and a social butterfly so style and type arent really that important. As far as attraction goes; i dont have a "type". Physically it just depends on how a persons features come together in my mind that makes me attracted to their body but beauty is multifaceted. Looks personality, love style, chemistry, attitude, all these things come together to determine if a person is overall beautiful or not for me. Im not in a hurry to jump into anything but I dont believe in limiting interactions based on a specific timescale or wasting time talking online when we could get to know one another better texting or something.. If we click well lets see where we can go, if not friends are fine or we can go our separate ways. not a big deal but time is the one thing you can never get back so lets not waste it.
