Im a medically retired video game playin semi hermit singer that likes to play pool and go on adventures. I do karaoke and like to go out for a few drinks here and there to recharge my hermit battery and make sure im not socially inept. Im very loving and affectionate with the right person and always do my best to try and be better than i was yesterday. Im emotionally available and balanced, ive been to therapy, and i thoroughly appreciate those who have put the work in to be the best version of themselves or those who are in the process. I stay far away from drugs ( though i dont count weed, mushrooms, or other plants. mainly anything that has to be "cooked" or manufactured.) and cigarettes though i do have an e-cig and dont mind those. I dont do short term encounters (hook ups, friends with benefits ect.) and im looking for someone to build something beautiful with for the long haul. I dont have a specific "type" although alternative is my favorite fashion choice. physical attraction for me is a little weird because either i am or im not but ill know when i see the person what the case is and if i am ill want to know more.