I begin where the noise does end,
A quiet companion, but not a friend.
In your final moments, I’m all that’s heard,
Yet I utter not a single word.
-- I am generally looking for friendly chats but I am also very straightforward and expect the same from others, so I apologize as this might sound "mean":
If you identify as the "ladies man/player," do not bother talking to me. There are many girls much better suited for that energy around.
Looking pretty is one thing, but I do not support promiscuous behavior, nor will I indulge in it.
I am open to communication and seeing where it gets us, but I will not date anyone I don't know or see in such a way. I am satisfied with my life as is, and getting a partner would only be an option if it brings long-term fulfillment and joy. I don't need co-dependencies.
It's either 10 of cups for me or nothing.