I live between Omaha NE/CB Iowa. I try to find a balance between being outdoors and staying indoors when I'm by myself. I would call my style alternative, I have a skincare routine, and I take care of myself. I'd like to find someone receptive to me who wants to stay in but go out here and there or just do what they want, including me in those plans. My love language is touch and conversations that observe things from multiple angles and directions. Any strong opinions I have can be challenged with new information. I like to do selfless things for my partner, like hand, foot, and back massages (to name a few). If they enjoy it, I get enjoyment from it (use your imagination). I'm cuddly and affectionate, and it doesn't take me long to warm up. I would say I'm a Dom/Sub dynamic.
I don't care if you think you don't have your life together. I want to be part of the journey, whether you want to improve yourself or not. You don't have to keep up with me or do the same things I do, as long as you respect that I'm athletic and enjoy activities like cycling and going to the gym. I don't really care for sports or teams, sorry, but you can love them. I'll mingle at superbowl party or accompany you still.
(Food)
Coffee,tea
Anything but cheap ground beef or sausage, only beef hotdogs, etc. Ramen, sushi, Thai, Indian, Chinese, Mexican, Italian, just to name a few.
(My personality)
I'm cautious until I'm completely comfortable, I don't like being serious unless it calls for it. Otherwise, I'm relaxed, and I do what feels natural. I will match you like a mirror if you like that. Which could be good or bad depending on what you're like. (Simply, I'm not stuck in my ways. I'm evolving,changing,improving all the time)
Dominant and prefer to take charge.
(Music)
Metal, rap, edm, pop, and many more depend on my mood.
(Movies)
Sci-fi, fantasy, horror, comedy, action. Yes, even the sappy stuff, disney movies,anime.
(Other interests)
Thrifting, Antiques/Modern/Mid-century, Spa/massage, Skating/ice skating, tennis, badminton, golf, bowling, darts, pool, hiking, kayaking, swimming, diving, Concerts, shows, conventions (although rare that I go the last couple of years)
(Who im looking for, keeping it simple)
Someone who wants to eventually be more active, not today, not next month but someday, not a competition or rush.
Someone who takes care of themselves (hygiene)
Someone who will include me even if our interests are different so we can have new discoveries and discussions.
Someone who will correct me if I'm in the wrong communicate keep me in the know on what they want or need.
(Pet peeves)
Someone who can digest 1,000 movies,songs, video games, art based things, restaurants, and find everything that's there to hate and can't see the beauty in anything or view those things just differently and like something, anything from it at all.
(Deal-breakers for your consideration)
I'm bilaterally and surgically sterile by choice and don't want any more kids.
I do have a daughter who doesn't live with me that I see at my parents' house. She's old enough that it's not a problem or inconvenience to anyone and doesn't need to be involved if it bothers you.
