Edit: I may have jumped the gun. I realized once I received the first message that if I can't even invest time in myself yet, how am I supposed to put proper energy into a person of interest. So, for now this is going to be a search for friends, gig goers, other parents wanting to chill with another adult while the terrors run amuck.
Finding this part hard to do as I seem to have lost myself between being the sole provider and parent to my three kids under 7.
It'd be amazing to find someone to call my best friend, and partner, not another human I need to raise. Enjoy simple times together as well as adventures. Understands that not every day is rainbows n sunshine but at the end of the day we've got each other to lean on.
I enjoy a variety of music but punk is a favorite. I sing all the time... Literally random songs about what I'm doing, and I didn't say I was good at it
. I play bass and dabble with guitar. My artistic nature loves to create things but never share them as my stuffs never "good enough". Im stubborn, strong willed, and independent, a catch 22 depending on the guy. I act unphased when I'm hurt or scared... A coping mechanism so I don't seem weak. I've got some baggage but if I'm called out on it in the right way I can usually do some self reflection to work through it. So yeah, a challenge but also pretty awesome.
Find my IG since admins haven't approved pics yet @bessgrotesque