I might be the one you could love.
I exemplify the traits many women should be looking for; honesty, loyalty, intelligence,
creativity and good problem solving skills.
The truth is, though, I'm probably very finicky when it comes to people.
I can only reconcile myself to the very best of them, and as a result,
I have suffered self-imposed but unintentional social isolation for most of my life,
like a hermit.
-I'm a wise hermit, though! (Come greet me at the entrance of my humble cave! I might surprise/delight you!)
If my last relationship of 10+years was a parachuting expedition, I was having the time of my life in exciting free-fall, but when time came to pull the rope, mine malfunctioned, and I hit pretty hard. I got up, dusted myself off a bit for a couple years, but now I'm ok!
There are a lot of good weirdos on this site. I fit in pretty well. There are a lot of BAD weirdos, too! You know which ones I'm takin about!....
I'm looking for an intellectual woman 34-55 yrs old who has similar interests to me; in tone if not a perfect match thereof. Because you can learn a lot about where a person's head (and heart!) is at through musical preference, I would suggest that you peruse mine and have at least 75% in common or so.
Here are my other interests:
*guitar/bass/drums and other musical skill. I love music and playing it, especially in front of a crowd.
*UFO's, alien contactees, cryptids, paranormal, metaphysics, giants, The Egyptian Pyramids, Coral Castle, and myriad other related subject matter of the same category.
*I smoke cigarettes, and am a coffee lover. Would prefer same. Marijuana gives me anxiety/panic response, but if you're into weed, I'm not persnickety. But please no hard/stupid drugs. Ain't nobody got time fodat! To go along with that: If you are self-hating or self-destructive and/or you use drugs other than what I mentioned already (barring prescription medication of course), please go away. Thanks. Jah bless.
*I love playing chess, so if you're a chess player, that would be phenomenal! Hit me up and we can play a game together online as an ice breaker and conversate while we try to outsmart each other on a chessboard!
*I have a daughter from my first serious relationship/marriage. Long time ago. She's grown now, so it shouldn't cause an issue. Just FYI.
* Favorite color is red. I love roses (rose petal tea, rose infused lotion, and rosewater).
*A quirk of mine: I have synesthesia (I "see" colors in numbers and letters, and the colors are always strangely consistent. Science has no answers, and neither do I, but it's a nifty thing. It's not compulsory, but it sort of tucks itself away as an set of associations I can always access in my mind.
*I wrote a short story/fairy tale called Marcel And The Cat. If you like, mention it to me, and I will send you a free copy of the PDF through email for you to enjoy. Or I can copy paste it to you if you're funny about email, but whatever.
*I ALSO have lots of songs of my own music (under two separated band projects; Igor Takes A Bride and Imbuers by name) that I can share with you! It doesn't suck, either! I'm a multi-media creative entertainment hub kinda GUY!
Enough about me! What about YOU?! Don't be hesitant to message me. I'm open and easy to get a conversation going with. Thanks for reading thus far.
