IG - Darknesshyde_rope / SC - Darkness Hyde / Fet - Darkness_Hyde * Feel free to message me if I don't answer right away.
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*I'm not here to judge anyone at first glance, I'm just trying keep an open mind toward new opportunities and maybe learn more of myself in the process
*Looking for friendships either platonic or serious with similar interests or hobbies. I certainly value people beyond the promise of s*x, dating or marriage. We are all adults here so don't over complicate things. Someone definitely willing to make the effort and meet each other half way. I'm not here for random encounters or waste each other's because I certainly would like to have a meaningful connection with someone.
*I'm a very sensual, sexual, loving and passionate person however one night stands and random encounters are not what I'm looking for as I require a good connection with someone before hand.
*I'm a carefree, easy going and free thinking old soul and blunt at times in search of something unique, fun and exciting. Looking for like minded friends and people to share interests, make art, attend concerts, community/scene based events or just talk and perhaps work out, bike or do hot yoga. Many times I do plenty of the above by myself and I think it would be great to find people that can come along or share some of our mutual interests.
*I'm very down to earth, open minded and positive as well as nerdy, playful, exciting, supportive and most importantly proud of my wicked sense of humor and if you take yourself too seriously we may never get along
*I'm a former dancer, so yeah dancing and music still a great part of my life. I literally like most kinds of music to dance and I believe I have a very eclectic taste.
*I love traveling and trying new things whether it be food, places or just life. I'm always down for adventures.
*I'm a night owl because I find the night better to make art or do fun things.
*Self-employed, Promoter, Artist, Writer, poet, leather maker and woodworker.
*Love concerts, museums, symphony, opera, classical music, culture, old movies, foreign movies, antique or thrift shopping and art in many forms and anything considered self expression.
*I enjoy local burlesque and aerial shows but I would never turn down going to Cirque du Solei.
*Love books about art, poetry, forensic, history and horror as well as Scary Movies, documentaries, true crime shows or video games when I get the time to just have time for myself.
Most Importantly
*Greatly involved into the **** and Kink scene/community for the last 16+ years so I never hold judgement toward anyone because this is not a phase.
*If you’re "religious" and tend to shame people for living their own lives we may never see eye to eye at all or ever.
*Most mass marketing holidays are a scam because I can celebrate with love ones any occasion without need of a particular "day" to do so. I don't need one day to appreciate my partner more than others. I enjoy giving my partner massages, gifts, flowers or my own time year round when possible.
*I hate sports so please don't ever try to force me sit for hours to scream at a TV. I'm definitely not your average guy either and most mindless men culture is just a waste of time.
*I work and promote events at an alternative night club so not much surprises me and I can spot bs or drama a mile away.
*After so many years and definitions of love I have explored monogamy, polyamory and FWB in many aspects ... I certainly know that by even mentioning the last two people will cringer, however all 3 are based on one simple truth and principle... CONSENT. However I think I have been hurt a lot worse on monogamous relationships.
*My preference is poly and ethical non monogamous but I'm not limited at the moment for other options.
*Everyone should know more about who you are and what do you like without being judged or shamed before hand by agreeing/consenting to be more open and that's true honesty/truth.
*Regarding definitions of love I believe everyone is entitled to care or love anyone despite gender or preferences just the same ... love is love and it should never be use to devalue anyone.
And last but not least
*My life, business and lifestyle it's proof that you can get what you want when you work hard for your dreams. I make an honest living and I live the life I want by accepting everyone and I certainly don't have to bend over backwards to pretend I'm anyone I'm not and anyone I chose to spend time, spoil, make time or just share parts of myself will know that right away or without question.
*For now I'm not entirely sure what brings me to this place and to be honest I doubt anyone will make the effort yet I'm hoping I'm wrong. After being single for a year and a half after Covid I know I'm ready. Also only a few will understand all what I say above and think I'm crazy or judge me ... but that is ok, most of my life people thought that and much worse, but I'm still here hoping one day that persom or those amazing people will come along to compliment each other's life.
I'm not here to judge you or anyone else.
So live and let live every day.
Sincerely
Jesse
P.S
And if you made it all the way here thank you and let's chat and if you still aren't interested be well and hope you find what you are looking for!
