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STEPH

48 - Straight

Orkney, United Kingdom

Nov 20, 2024 20:46

Adventurous Comet with diverse range of interests looking for a star to orbit.
A fellow comet if we can sync. our perehelia and orbital cycles reasonably often might be an even better match.

Must be OK with ongoing friendly/supportive residual orbital interactions with a gas giant due to...and occasional orbital disturbances cause by our common ultra high gravity little (quite big actually) moons...

Hmmm... Maybe I'm in the wrong place here?

Seems it's all about listening to metal and dressing up in black... which is fine. (actually metal is so mellanin deficient and Y chromosome heavy that there's something seriously wrong with you if it doesn't make you want to vom yes I acknowledge that punk and to some extent the music industry in general are not much if any better) and I like a bit of outrageous style although not necesarily monochrome. But if that is all that's alternative that's not very exiting or interestin...

I came here hoping to connect with Hippy/Punky Anarcho-Communist/ Anarcho-Feminist, AntiFa leaning people... if I'm lucky find romance (no experience worth mentioning and not dead set on it but I'm definitely very very open to ENM as long as that isn't just a euphemism for casual. i want meaningful connection on more than just a physical level. More attracted to Kitchen table style poly. Not DADT) , or just peeps to plot and ferment the revolution, or buy/squat some land/and abandoned factory where we build an sustainable horizontally organized intentional community and lead the way by example.

Other than Radical Lefty Politics my interest is mostly outdoorsy/Natural History/Environmental issues and practical stuff... I have and extreme affinity for water (and all things living ini it) but rocks are pretty cool too!

My musical taste is rather eclectic but distinctly Groovy/Funky Electronica Dancey Leaning (I'd love to study contemporary dance). I'm quite fond of (esp. UK) political Hip hop... nothing wrong with a bit of Rock/Metal but the hardest i would describe as go too... are The Prodigy, RATM, Nirvana, and and occasionally punk and 60s 70s classics like Jimi Hendrix, Black Sabbath...

I wouldn't mind someone more arty than myself. Someone happy to drag me to an art gallery/theater/spoken word/gig/city break that is happy that I will drag them up a hill or down a cave and along to explore the west coast and highlands in a camper van...

I don't really have a fixed idea of what I'm looking for but if I'd imagine a dream partner they'd be probably some sort of mix of Tokyo (La Casa de Papel) Lisbeth Salander (" The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo" before it goes all James Bond/mission impossible in "The girl in the spiders web". Laudable as it is that such a film should have a woman as the main character for a change), Camina Drummer or either of the Mao sisters.
(Before anyone blames mellanin, Naomi is great but too goddy two shoes/lacking impulsivity and edge) (I'd love to roll with Drummers crew/polycule but my world view and politics are pretty Inaros Faction. "...We were already at war, you just couldn't see it because they were killing us slow..." or not so slow if you're not white/ are from the global south) Yoko Ono, Angela Davis, Kimberly Jones, Assata/Afeni Shakur... Kathleen Hanna, with a good sprinkle of warmth/kind and caring/and whose primary love languages are touch and words affirmation (both giving and receiving and preferably in that order). I don't think I'm compatible with somone that has an avoidant attachment style. I know I'm asking too much but one can't but dream. I'm also not sure that what I desire is what is actually good for me?
Being a total disorganized procrastinating daydreaming mess... i should probably aim for someone down to earth and steady...

In case it's important:
🇪🇺 But living in 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 (Scotland) and 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿 (Wales) for practically all my adult life... according to a certain Ms May I'm a/Identify as citizen of nowhere 🤦