Husband died 2 years ago. I haven't been in the dating scene for awhile so I'm a little lost. Especially in any of the traditional online dating forums that are full of squares. I'm a bar manager and bartender, so I work late nights and all weekends. If I do manage to get a night off, it's most likely because there's a show that I cannot miss. For example in taking 5 days off in May to go to Punkrock Bowling in Vegas