Hi! I`m Ben!
I work as a barista and enjoy gaming, cooking and drinks with friends down the pub. I really love listening to music, anything good, so most genres have something I like, but I have a particular love for electronic, industrial and anything with awesome vocals. I studied computer science at Uni and worked as a computer programmer of one kind or another for most of my post-uni life, but decided to leave stress and meetings behind to find more enjoyable work. I`m a massive geek and pretty shy until I get to know people, but you`ll also find me to be open, honest, caring, affectionate and tactile.
I`m also very much in to green living and environmental issues. I`m vegan, but not the preachy kind, everyone has to find their own path and the one I have chosen is not a judgement on the choices of others. Not that I mind preachy vegans either, some of my best friends are
I`m pretty fit, I work on my feet all day and walk pretty much everywhere. I love walking in beautiful places and I`m always up for a picnic or barbeque on a sunny day.
I am currently in a polyamorous relationship with the wonderful EGYPTAGOTH who I met on this site. While I am not really looking for a new partner at the moment, I am always open to fun, friends and potential for more, so don't be afraid to get in touch.