Hello, back on here after a very long time gone. Actually its been a few years easy, but i got a random notification the the other day. So i came here.so im back.
Start by saying im not a fan of alchohol, drugs or anything like that. Not saying anyone whos in that s**t is bad people i just dont want that stuff around me.
Ok lots to say so im gonna try and make things point form and short and sweet
DEALBREAKERS:
- DRUGS, YES WEED, POT WHATEVER YOU WANT TO CALL IT IS A DRUG! ITS UNATTRACTIVE!
( Not saying anyone whos in that s**t is bad people i just dont want that stuff around me. )
- GETTING DRUNK ( ITS A HUGE TURN OFF, IM AN ADULT, I PLAN ON DATING ONE AS WELL)
- WANTING KIDS ( SORRY NOT INTERESTED, IVE HAD A VASECTEMY FOR A REASON)
- DISORGANIZATION AND MESSY AND UNCLEAN PEOPLE AND PLACES. ( I KEEP MYSELF PRESENTABLE AND MY PLACE SPOTLESS AND LIVEABLE, ITS NOT HARD, YOU CAN DO IT TOO!!
- IM NOT A FAN OF CIGARETTES, BUT AS LONG AS ITS NOT DONE AROUND ME OR IN MY LIVING SPACE ITS ALL GOOD. PS MAKE SURE YOU HAVE GUM OR MOUTHWASH HANDY AFTERWARDS BECAUSE I WONT KISS YOU.
INTERESTS:
GOTHIC CULTURE (OBVIOUSLY) MY PARTNER SHOULD ALSO BE INTO IT OR AT LEAST BE OK WITH IT, SINCE MY LIVING SPACE IS GENERALLY CONSUMED BY IT. IT MAKES ME FEEL VERY COMFORTABLE.
MOVIE BUFF: IM A HUGE MOVIE BUFF, SPECIFICALLY HORROR, SCI-FI,FANTASY AND WEIRD ABSTRACT AND UNIQUE FILMS. I ALSO VERY MUCH PREFER THE 90s 80's AND OLDER ERA FILMS MORE SO THEN TODAY SUCH AS THE ACTION FILMS. PS I PREFER PHYSICAL MEDIA OVER STREAMING ANY DAY OF THE WEEK.
IM A RETRO GAMER SO I LOVE MOSTLY THE OLDER GAMES FROM PS2 AND DOWNWARDS, MY FAVORITE IS CLEARLY SNES AND N64 I PLAY EVERYDAY. IM A SOLO GAMER MOST TIMES, ITS MY DOWN TIME.
I LOVE MY MUSIC, IT MEANS ALLOT TO ME, IT GIVES ME A SENSE OF COMFORT AND PEACE.
QUIRKS:
ONE OF MY BIGGEST TURN ONS ODDLY ENOUGH IS THE KNOWLEDGE THAT ONE DOESNT DO DRUGS OR BOOZES, IM MORE LIKELY TO BE INTERESTED OR VERY ATTRACTED TO SOMEONE KNOWING THIS.
I HAVE A HIGHDRIVE AND IM NOT NECCESARILY SMALL IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN, I BRING THIS UP ONLY ON THE BASIS THAT THIS HAS CAUSED ISSUES IN MY PASS RELATIONSHIPS. EITHER BECAUSE SOMEONE COULDN'T KEEP UP WITH ME OR THAT THE SIZE WAS AN ISSUE. IM NOT ALL ABOUT s*x, BUT COMPATIBILITY IS IMPORTANT TO ME IN THAT AREA.
I AM ON THE SPECTRUM OF AUTISM ( IF YOU DONT KNOW WHAT THAT IS, YOU SHOULD LOOK IT UP. BUT HERES A JIST OF MY QUIRKS:
I GENERALLY AM A HUGE INTROVERTED PERSON, BEING AROUND PEOPLE AND CROWDS REALLY DRAINS ME AND IS GENERALLY UNCOMFORTABLE FOR A MULTITUDE OF REASONS. IF PUT IN SOCIAL SITUATIONS AND I FEEL OVERWHELMED I LIKE TO PUT MYSELF IN MY WORLD ( IPOD, MUSIC ) TO SEPERATE THE TWO.
I DONT ALWAYS PICK UP ON SOCIAL CUES ( INTRODUCTIONS, GREETINGS, THANK YOU'S AND APOLOGIES ARE A THING I OFTEN FORGET TO DO ) IT OFFENDS PEOPLE AND I COME OFF AS RUDE BUT THATS NOT CASE, ON THE PLUS SIDE I DONT PERSONALLY REQUIRE THOSE EITHER, SO IF I DO A GOOD DEED I GENERALLY DONT EXPECT A THANK YOU EITHER, SO THERE IS THAT.
IM HIGHLY ORGANIZED IN MY THOUGHTS AND IN MY LIFE AND LIVING SPACE, HENCE WHY I PREFFER CLEAN PEOPLE.
IM SENSITIVE TO HEAVY LIGHTS AND REALLY LOUD NOISES ( SUNLIGHT, IS A GOOD EXAMPLE HENCE WHY I DO WEAR GLASSES OFTEN) AS FOR THE NOISE I HAVE MY MUSIC, TO DROWN THAT OUT. BOTH OF THOSE GIVES ME VERY BIG HEADACHES TO VARYING DEGREES
BEING AUTISTIC ALSO GIVES ME THE NEED TO BE MY OWN PERSON, TO BE SEPERATE, WHICH EASILY CAN CAUSE PROBLEMS IN MY RELATIONSHIPS SINCE I LIKE TO HAVE THINGS IN A CERTAIN WAY SOMETIMES, KEEP THINGS TO MYSELF ( CUPS, PERSONAL ITEMS, ECT... ) HAVING MY OWN SPACE, FREE TO DO WHAT I NORMALLY DO EVEN THO IM IN RELATIONSHIP ( NOTSTUFF ) JUST BEING ABLE TO DO THINGS AND HAVE THE OTHER PERSON NOT BE JEALOUS OR GET UPSET BECAUSE AT THE END OF THE DAY I BELONG TO ONE PERSON AND ONE PERSON ONLY.
IM EXTREMELY LOGICAL AND THOUGHT CONCSIOUS. IM NEUROTIC AND QUESTION ALMOST EVERYTHING. I ALSO UNFORTUNATELY TAKE THINGS LITERAL, SO I OFTEN CAN RUIN JOKES LOL! BUT IM ALSO VERY FUNNY AND CANBE VERY GLIB, I SAY WHATS ON MY MIND. SO AT LEAST THERE IS THAT.
IM ALSO BIG ON PERSONAL ROUTINES, SORTA LIKE AN OCD THING, CHANGE IN MY ROUTINE IS GENERALLY ANNOYING OR UPSETTING AND THROWS MY DAY OFF, IT CAN OFTEN MAKE MY DAY FEEL UNFINISHED IF ITS NOT DONE AT SOME POINT, BUT I WILL ALWAYS GET BACK TO IT EVENTUALLY THROUGH OUT THE DAY. I ALSO HAVE ALOT OF TIMERS FOR THINGS AND ALARMS, ITS JUST ANOTHER WAY TO KEEP THINGS ORGANIZED
AND LASTLY I OFTEN AVOID EYE CONTACT AROUND PEOPLE I MAY NOT KNOW OR IM NOT COMFORTABLE WITH, AGAIN SOMETHING THAT MAKES ME LOOK SUSPICIOUS DURING ARGUMENTS. ALSO I DONT USUALLY TAKE WELL TO ARGUMENTS AND PEOPLE YELLING AS IT CAN OFTEN MAKE ME VERY UNCOMFORTABLE AND TENDS TO BLOCK MY SENSE OF LOGICAL THINKING, TO WHICH IT TAKES ME LONGER TO PROCESS MY THOUGHTS AND THE SITUATION.
WELL THATS ABOUT EVERYTHING I COULD THINK THAT WAS WORTH A MENTION. ANYTHING ELSE YOU WANT TO KNOW, JUST ASK.
