Update: i came on this site just to chat and hang occupy some free time and was open to meeting a nice guy too. That said i met a nice guy late Sept and been talken ever since. We became official in june and ive never been happier! So you can meet some one nice on here just take ur time use ur head . Everyones in such a rush to get to the finish line they miss so much along the way not to mention the joy in the journey! Dont come on here much and every now and then might get curious to see what every ones up too but thats it for me im definitely very happily taken. Good luck to all those searching for the same.