I am a 42 year old transgender woman. My pronouns are she/her/hers. I came out initially in February 2018. I have been on HRT (estrogen and a testosterone blocker) since May 2018.
My background is in teaching. I taught middle school and high school English for six years. Now I work cleaning offices for a regional healthcare company. My transition has been rough, but I am feeling much better and enjoying second puberty. I will not clean offices forever; I am pursuing higher paying jobs related to my degree and experience. Gender dysphoria in my previous life made it hard to stick with anything.
I have always loved punk music and the emphasis on DIY ethics. Favorite bands include Anti-Nowhere League, Defiance, the Clash, and anything with Jello Biafra's name on it. Some of my favorite writers are William S. Burroughs, Aaron Cometbus, and Noam Chomsky. A perfect date for me would be browsing record and thrift stores with a cute guy/girl/enby, followed by chilling at home with Netflix, then a trip to the tattoo parlor for matching neck tattoos. We'd end our evening with a show at a small venue where we can hold hands and then snug on one of the dirty couches.
I like makeup, shoes, mohawks, shaved heads and thrifted Chuck Taylors. I also do a podcast, TransPunkRockGirl, and I am on Bandcamp as Stevi Faithless. I do acoustic songs and some covers. My main focus is on spoken word , the angrier the better. I am happy to talk with anyone about my transgender experience, but not if the person is a d**k. I am used to people staring at me, misgendering me, catcalling me, or harassing me in the street. Once I decided to transition, I embraced punk harder than ever as a means of survival.
My purpose in life now is to help and support other trans people, but I will make friends and go on dates with anyone. I am poly, and I have one adventure partner, but on this site I am looking for dates, friends, and, yes, hookups if we are into each other. I will cook and clean for you and I am full of surprises. You should message me if you enjoy black humor and you don't mind me wailing into a mic with a cheap guitar and beer bottles all around.
