The definition of insanity is repeating the same thing and expecting a different result.
That means that to get a better life, to change things, you have to do different new stuff. Duh……The first big action step was hard, but YOU got results, which made the next easier…and so on.
These small action steps, not massive in terms of time or money, resulted in YOU: a new brightness appears in your eyes and if you look in the mirror now .... OH ... you have a beautiful smile on your face ...... .your things have started to change for the better !!!!
So there you go. I hope that inspires you to step up and make some moves.