MASTERGRAVES

Hi my name is Lain and I live in Castle Rock Colorado. I have been in the Ds lifestyle actively well over 20 years. I always knew I was different Evan as a kid playing Cowboys and Indians and tying the neighbor girl to the tree in the front yard and really liking it and not knowing why. As I grew up in my journey I have learned a lot and gained a grate deal of patients. I do not feel like I need 100% control to be in control. What Im looking for may be harder for a subslave to give. I want you to have a life beyond me as well as with me. I dont want to control your every move. The trill for me is having a obedient and prompt reply when I do dominate. Im easy to please and can have a soft hand or a hard hand depending on who Im with and our agreement. I have never been involved with any one who ever had to use there safe word. I feel we should take the time to know each other enough that we know our limits and though we push them never exceed them. I do not believe in hard limits as much as hard fears and I believe when talked out most can be over came with time trust and love. I have a grate sense of humor and I work for the County doing highway maintenance. I love the out doors a lot. I really like to camp out but I really dont require my mate to be into the out doors as I am. Though I would like to find some one that would at least make one out door day for us even if its a walk in the park hang out at the mall or something major like a camp trip or private getaway. Fill free to ask me any thing you would like and please say hi. I would love to get to know you much better.