Tenacious, forthright, open-minded, foodie metal-head with a penchant for cats, wine, S+M, and travel.I'm married but non-monogamous. I have a girlfriend, a husband, and others I see casually. I prefer to date/f**k emotionally mature people who have their s**t together.
I've been told that I come across as rather fierce, which I consider a compliment, but I'm aware that this can also make me appear unapproachable. I have a no nonsense attitude but I'm actually pretty laid back. I love to make people laugh and feel at ease. You'll frequently find me in the kitchen whipping up a feast, headbanging at a gig, or enjoying a drink with friends and setting the world to rights.
I won't lie, I've pretty much copy-pasted my profile from OKC but at least the below might give you an idea of what I'm into.
**One day, I would like to**
Travel more. 2018 is already shaping up to be pretty good; Marrakesh, Berlin, Amsterdam, Bratislava, Budapest, Vienna, and potentially New York so far.
In future I hope to go back to university and complete a PhD. I'm interested in examining Hélène Cixous's concept of écriture féminine in modern writing, specifically focusing on female experiences of S+M.
I also want to set up my own ethical queer p**n production company (there's a big gap in the market for long-haired guy-on-guy p**n.)
**I'm really good at**
Feeding people.
Despite my degrees being English and creative writing based I'm fairly good with numbers, or at least money. I'm a bargain hunter, however I am a snob when it comes to tea (Twinings) and brown sauce (HP, obviously.)
Filth. If you want specifics you'll need to ask, but let's just say I'm very well versed in carnal arts.
**Books/TV/Films/Music/Food**
Books: I have varied tastes in fiction from Val McDermind to Sarah Waters to Chris Kuzneski to Michael Marshall Smith. My guilty pleasure is Jodie Piccoult. I own a large number of cookbooks, comics including JTHM, Nemi, and Lenore as well as a growing collection of books on the history of black metal and the metal scene in general.
TV: Luther, How I Met Your Mother, Sons of Anarchy, Buffy, Frasier, CSI, Invader Zim, Metalocalypse, Dexter, Black Adder, and Black Books.
Films: I enjoy a lot of world cinema; films such as Chocolat, Delicatessen, Amélie, Pans Labyrinth, Micmac Howl's Moving Castle, Spirited Away. Chances are though, if you ask me 'have you seen this?' the answer will probably be no.
Music: I have varied tastes but veer more heavily towards the metal genre, especially Black/Death/Doom/Folk metal. Some bands I like include: Agalloch, Akerc**ke, Alcest, Bathory, Behemoth, Chelsea Wolfe, Cradle of Filth, Draconian, Drudkh, Dying Fetus, Enslaved, Empyrium, Finntroll, Godspeed You! Black Emperor, Gojira, Helheim, Karl Sanders, Korpiklaani, Moonspell, My Dying Bride, Negură Bunget, Necros Christos, Nine Inch Nails, Nunslaughter, Opeth, Peste Noire, Rotting Christ, Sombres Forêts, Shining, Strapping Young Lad, Taake, Wardruna, Watain, and Wolves in the Throne Room.
Food: I'm passionate about food and cooking. I adore cheese; give me fried halloumi, a chunk of mature cheddar, molten Camembert or crumbly Lancashire. I love strawberries in summer, apple crumble in winter. My favourite kind of cake is lemon. My diet is predominantly vegetarian and occasionally vegan but I'm not militant about my food choices.
**What I'm actually looking for**
Open minded perverted types, gender irrelevant, for filth, fun, and potentially more if it's mutually sought.
Someone who likes to have a laugh and don't take themself too seriously.
You should be accepting of, or open to, polyamory/non-monogamy. I'm not specifically looking for a serious relationship, but you must be okay with the fact I am not monogamous.
