I am a widower, a college professor, a father to a grown daughter, a voluptuary, a gourmand, a trickster, a collector of stories, and a pretty decent first date. I am funny, handsome in a beardy-beary way, have no signs of male-pattern baldness, and am smart, creative, 420-friendly, generous, affectionate, and great at cunnilingus. I'm GGG in the Dan Savage way (Google it), and I am committed to finding joy, happiness, and pleasure in my life.