he boring stuff about me: I work in an office, but at night I become a crazy party-loving DJ. I organize, promote and perform at electronic events in and around Vancouver under the monikers of Norman Wells (house) and DJ Jangbu (psy) and regularly attend kink parties. I also listen to a lot of skate punk and death metal when not DJing, amongst other things. I do a bit of volunteer work with a harm reduction organization called Karmik (karmik.ca). Part of our harm reduction approach involves the promotion of consent culture and you might have seen our booths at er***ca Electronica and all over the summer festival circuit. I am very passionate about a wide range of social issues and policies and am a political activist militating for a major provincial party. I'm also into actually fun things like sci-fi, especially cyberpunk, riding bicycles, writing and good old platonic cuddle puddles. Affection without the expectation of s*x can be very therapeutic and cathartic! Try it if you haven't!
The interesting stuff about me: I like giving spanks, giving orders, putting potty-mouthed people in their place, tying knots, using toys, pushing people's limits and trying new things. I am poly-amorous and have no committed partner at the moment. I have mild social anxiety and I am a wee bit shy and awkward at first, but once I get to know people and open up, I build a lot of long-lasting, deep friendships with all kinds of different people. My sexual attraction is pretty complex and random, but I have a marked preference for bigger women. This is far from an exclusive taste, as it appears my brain is much more influenced by someone's personality, their vibe, their energy and the rapport I have with them than by mere physical considerations, but there is a historical trend. I am not here with any expectations. Please feel free to reach out, I will respond to anyone who does
