So, here goes...
Despite being very busy (aren't we all?), I make it a point to find the time for doing the things I like and spending time with the people I care about, and I absolutely refuse to become a slave to my work or other obligations.
I like people who have brains, humour and wit, spunk, self-confidence (not narcissism), resilience, strength of character, a willingness to learn and be taught (humility), those who have been through some s**t in life.
If what you think and talk about goes beneath the surface, it won't go unnoticed by me. 😉