I am a reasonably intelligent, mature Dom who is seeking a female sub for mutual fun and fulfillment for now just online. I do enjoy controlling, using, punishing, and humiliating a desiring sub. But for me the relationship itself is important with friendship, fun, and mutual trust major goals. As a married professional being discreet is important. I do enjoy spanking a shapely female sub's ass as I stroke her clit. And I have been called a gentle sadist but I do not enjoy another's pain, only her enjoyment of pain and pleasure together. Also, I enjoy exhibitionistic subs who like to show off for me.
