I'm a newbie to this on-line dating venue, as the last time I was single, the 'Internet' was not a household word , and 'windows' were things made of glass that you looked through. After reading many profiles (female) it is obvious that there are certain cliches that everyone seems to list. Who doesn't want someone that is honest, has integrity, is kind and compassionate? Aren't these given? Where it gets tricky is something you can't put down on 'paper'- it's the enigmatic quality of CHEMISTRY; It's what takes over when you connect with the right person. It's undeniable when it happens, it's impossible to fake when it doesn't. Well about myself: I am not a shrinking violet or fragile type of man. When I feel, I feel passionately. I believe in grabbing for the gold ring whenever possible and I would always, always rather ask for forgiveness than for permission. I'm a smart, strong, yet malleable, man that has had a great deal of success in the business world,I'm not needy or clingy but most definitely am romantic, passionate and affectionate with 'the right one' I'm more of a sensual/sexual man than a fuzzy, cuddly one. If you need lots of PDA, I'm probably not for you. Don't misunderstand, I am definitely affectionate, just not cloyingly so,I'm friendly, but I also have a sarcastic sense of humor which some people like and others don't. It takes a while for me to build trust in someone new, we all know what that's like, but if my gut tells me to do so, I follow my instincts,I enjoy reading,writing poetry,dining out and going to the movies, walks and long drives, love to laugh and be around friends & family.I'm not out for games,i'm here for a serious relationship, no drama,no games,time is too short for drama.I like to hold hands,cuddle and be close to my mate. I'm a submissive man, honest,loyal,obedient,caring an oh so loving,supportive pulchritude man and if your looking for an opulent mate i'm not for you.i'm not high maintenance, but I do appreciate the finer things in life. My mate must be assertive, but not aggressive. Someone with the same interests that I have, but she must be able to stand on her own and protect what she loves in life.I'm very big on optimist. I love life to the fullest. I am able to enjoy life. For full harmony there is none but only you. I Love people, especially children.I like to communicate with people and to give them what is necessary. I like to laugh. I like to sing and love it,I do not represent the life without music. It lifts me on the crest of a wave, fills me with feelings and emotions. Owing to it, I easily transfer any vital troubles,If this description fits you, then you are the one I want to meet