ok, hear me out. there is one thing that an emo boy will hate the most. and its what u said in the wrighting "that's not a good start if i wanna be emo". You WANNA BE an emo. if u suddenly turn emo, the boy will definatly know ur just a wannabe emo. so AVOID doing that at all costs. oh, and as for ur friend, tell her not to do that to save her embarrasment. dressing up like an emo doesnt make u emo. in fact it would just make her a massive wannabe. and the emo boys wud think "y have them normal girls suddenly turned into wannabees.". us emos hate wannabees. and u r just trying to change for a boy who if u go out with, you would probably break up with in a month, and at the same time u would have affected a lot of people around u. u hav to think about the impact against other people too.