im looking pretty butch now but when I move in a few weeks im back to my dykey old self. im M to F trans looking for an open minded person who is (biologically at least) female. Im biologically male. So dont get the wrong idea. Im a single parent of a 4 year old boy who i love with all my heart. Im looking for freinds and dating as well but lets meet first and see if we get along and are compatable before anything else. Im very sensitive and in touch with my feelings i talk about stuff and i like to listen. im learning how to be more in touch with how other people feel. im not perfect. Ive made mistakes like everyone and ive learned from them and dont repeat the same f**king behavior over again expecting different results. Im positive and trying to be happy without the drama and self esteem issues our society plops down on people like us i am 29 so when i grew up it wasnt as accepting as it is now so i still have those old fears. Im coming out of parenting reclusion. ive been single for about 6 months taking time to myself ad figure out what i want. i dont want to just jump into a relationship. i want to take time this time and find out who you are and make freinds as well. i typo really bad but i have great english and reading skills if i take my time so dont judge this by how many spelling errors i have i just dont care about that. im not all about myself. i like peope who arent all about themselves as well. i love to laugh. im as silly as they come. i like to try to take the positive into everything because i had a hard life and i know what suffering is and i dont want to cause my own or anyone elses suffering with an attitude. I love books and games, art and music, horrible greasy food and black coffee. I love spending time ith people andif they are ok with kids thats even better because i like taking my son places with me as well. he needs more people like me around him so he sees it as normal. because society doesnt have the right to judge us. we have our own culture and maybe someday our own society. i have a punk background. I know what poverty is and how to appreciate being comfortable. Im not rich, some would say im poor but i think im just fine. I manage. I dont think life is about spending money and always going out all the time. im never bored i have hobbies im a geek as well. i like to be comfortable. i like to be outside and go hiking camping stargazing sasquatching ufo watching ghost hunting etc. im obsessed with primitive cultures and legens from our ancestors. All of our ancestors. I dont have racial preference. I see everyone as equal. i only have sexual preference and thats becasue my parts dont fit with parts that are like mine. lol. but i dont see being gay trans bi or anything in between as weird or not normal. American society doesnt seem to have a special or even accepting place for people like me and likewise so i am shunned quite often and i dont care. Im in college studying for my associate of science Transfer degree at PCC. I want to transfer to PSU and go into Social Services. Probably youth counseling or homeless recovery.