I don't participate in the whole "party hardy" scene...
I'm a bit too opinionated...
I cannot stand the majority of personalities, or at least find it rigorous to find ones I admire.
If you have the whole outlook of "I don't do drugs, I just smoke pot", you already piss me off. Don't even waste your time. I don't associate with drug users. If you feel you have to resort to them, then you have problems with your inner self you need to deal with. Also known as baggage. I'm not interested in carrying it with you.
One of my biggest pet peeves is people who do not seem to understand the difference between want and need.